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Flickr Residue & Having One Foot in Two Boats
Surprising Details of the Hot Pink Matsumoto Aster I have been here now for a few weeks and I really love it! People are very friendly, and as I put in the effort, I'm getting more commenting contacts, which is wonderful, and I'm making new friends. I can see that if I keep it up, I should definitely be able to recreate the experience I had on Flickr over here on ipernity. That was one of my biggest concerns. I generated a very large contact list over a couple of years and a solid base of commenters have become my friends. I really care about them and a huge number of them are still on Flickr. This means that if I want to stay in contact, I have to visit them on Flickr, and it's just so painful and slow in comparison to ipernity!

When I upload my pictures, I'm still uploading first to Flickr and then importing them to ipernity from there, since that seems the best way to double post. I'm still getting plenty of visitors there and comments too, though I have to admit that the numbers are all down. I'm sure this is due partly because many people left Flickr after the explosion, but also because I'm just not replying to comments like I used to. It's frustrating to me because it IS a LOT slower to open pages and comment. Ipernity is noticably faster and I am making a bigger effort to comment here since I am eventually going to pull the plug on Flickr. However, truth be told, I'm very busy these days and I haven't been commenting like I once did when I had more time to spend visiting and commenting.

92/365: "Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror." ~  Khalil Gibran One of the things that's frustrating to me is all the information cleanup I need to do with my pictures. Pre-Flickr Explosion, I used to embed pictures into my first upload of the day so that people could see the other pictures I uploaded that day just by scrolling down. I put information in the image titles to let people know there were more pictures below. However, all of this was stripped away when I moved my pictures over here, except the invalid titles of course. So I will have to go through and correct all the titles all the way back to the time I began doing that. About two years of images...*cringe*. Will it ever happen? Ugh. I just don't know. Thinking about priorities, it's way down there when it comes to all the other things I should/need/want to be doing. I hate that my pictures have incorrect titles now, but I don't know when I'll get around to fixing all the wrong info.

I am getting closer and closer to closing the doors on Flickr, but I'm not there yet. I really want to stay in contact with my friends there, but it's like having a foot in two boats that are drifting apart. The reality is that I'm being a horrible commenter on both sites because I can't keep up. I read a blog here from one person who reported that they finally left Flickr for good, and it made them feel so much better. The feeling of relief was very powerful--to not have to think about this decision anymore. I really look forward to that. I feel like I'll be abandoning my friends there, like I'm a bad person for leaving. But what can I do? Well, I'm working on building a new home here, getting new friends, gaining contacts and a foundation of commenting pals, participating in the groups, and you know, it will still be really hard, but life goes on, right?

4 comments

Bee Nee said:

I know the feeling (see also my reply to your comment (thank you!) on my homepage). Luckily my contacts on Flickr were already reduced because I just didn't find much time for too many 'friends'; I think my last post on Flickr got two comments so far... But it makes it easier, and the few friends I have there hopefully will stay in email contact. One shouldn't forget - it's a virtual world and although people comment in nice ways and on a regular basis - it's not comparable to real friendships. For me it's good to know who stays. It's also a kind of 'clean-up'. - Anyway, good luck with your 'transition' ;) See you soon...
11 years ago

Jim Boynton said:

Hi again. Another well written article that I understand completly. The closure of the feedback thread that was mentioned earlier was a deciding factor for me to use ipernity exclusively. Even if they said 'sorry, we were wrong' and changed back today I would have a hard time putting faith in a site that obviously values money (nothing wrong with that) OVER (and there's the rub) customer satisfaction.
11 years ago

Mickey fez said:

you will have no trouble making friends here, a very friendly place
11 years ago

Valfal said:

I too, have struggled with going between the 2 sites, and it is heartbreaking for me to lose track of so many "friends" from Flickr. That being said, it would seem that for every contact I lose track of over there, I make a new friend here. Better still, I am becoming aquainted with a community that I never knew before, and find it to be friendly and interesting to boot!

Given the above reported security breach, I will be closing my Flickr account sooner than later.

BTW, Janet, it is a pleasure getting to know you! Your photos are lovely!
11 years ago